For a while now i've been struggling to find useful strategies on how to approach parent-led weaning in a gentle and respectful way. So when I came across
this idea of making a book about weaning I just loved the notion of having a concrete tool that could potentially help explain to Bean what was happening in a way that she would relate to and enjoy.
The book is basically a story that you make up about your child and their journey towards weaning, using photographs of your child and family as the illustrations. In putting the book and the story together I kept referring to it as 'The Boobie Book' (Bean's word for Breastfeeding) and so that's what it became. I wrote the wording first, which took time to get right as I wanted to make as accessible as possible for Bean as well as fun to read and relevant to the topic - just a bit of pressure there! Then I went through the archives of our photos since Bean was born (needless to say there were more photos taken in the last 23 months than in any of the other 27 years of my life!), selected the best shots to fit the wording, and worked some special favorites in to the story. One trip to Big W to purchase a photo album book and get the prints done, add some late nights cutting and double sided taping the words in place...and voila! The finished article!
And it goes like this...
Once upon a time there was a very
special girl born into the world…
Her name was Ava.
From the very beginning she LOVED
drinking milk from Mummy’s boobies! - It was SO yummy!
And she LOVED having cuddles,
sometimes with mummy…
And sometimes with daddy.
As Ava grew bigger she learned to do
LOTS of new things. She learned how to roll over…
She learned to sit up…
She learned to eat food…
And to drink from a cup…
And she still had lots of yummy milk
from mummy’s boobies…
And lots of cuddles!
As Ava grew up she learned to do
more new things and she said bye bye to some old things. First she learned to
stand up, so she said bye bye to sitting…
She learned to crawl, so she said
bye bye to standing…
She learned to walk, so she said bye
bye to crawling…
And then she learned to run! So she
said bye bye to walking.
And she still had lots of yummy milk
from mummy’s boobies…
And lots of cuddles!
Ava had so many exciting adventures…
She rode on a carousel horsey…
She went sliding down big slides!
She made new friends…
She played with a wall of water…
And still she had lots of milk from
mummy’s boobies…
And lots of cuddles!
She went up and down, up and down on
the seesaw…
She explored the wombat park…
She went for walks high up on Daddy’s
shoulders…
And still she had lots of milk from
mummy’s boobies, and lots of cuddles.
Then one day it was time for Ava to
say bye bye to milk…
And bye bye to boobies…
But she still had lots and lots of
cuddles, sometimes with mummy…
And sometimes with daddy…
And she and mummy and daddy lived
happily ever after. THE END.
So there you have it. Fingers crossed Bean enjoys reading it as much as I enjoyed making it - which I must say was a very therapeutic process in itself. And as well as hopefully being a practical tool in our weaning journey, I also hope to preserve this book as a keepsake for both myself and Bean to look back on this blissful (and boobie-full) time in her life. When all is said and done, I will miss it so.
B xx